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How To Recognize Your Soul Mate

Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. By and large many of us have a real and important need to become better focused about things we choose to have in our lives. This applies to all things, from everyday practical matters to avoiding unpleasant feelings. The mystery is to achieve a clear mind and then to find the solutions to problems. The 7 Words System offers a down-to-earth innate system that enables us to get hold of a greatly improved knowledge of what it is that we are trying to find. The process begins with No. In the beginning we have to describe accurately what we do not want what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The second phase correlates with the word Hello. We will certainly need to make ourselves open to new possibilities if we have a desire to expand our scope of answers to questions arising. Is that reasonably logical? To get something different we will need to extend our perspectives and look where we have not previously looked already. Original dreams, new contacts , new situations and new things are clearly characteristic of giving consideration to something we have not previously been subjected to. It requires that we substitute old for new, that can tender something in fair return for what we want to obtain for ourselves.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Between all open choices, some are more desirable than others and we feel we want to treat them as having a greater significance, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Frequently, we overlook the significance of what we have, slip into ungratefulness and are likely to presume things will always be the way they have been before. It's more than simply consideration to reveal our appreciation for things we regard as valuable; it has a significant part to play in helping us to accomplish our ends. Psychologically we are attracted to what we convey our thanks for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we can to magnetize them to us too. We build up our pulling power when we say Thanks and therefore, in doing this, we easily bring things towards us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and relates to a procedure having 4 clearly defined steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a particular stage of development, which could be perceived simply as total eradication of a viable course of action that we had been progressing towards and in future will not engage in. It is a crossroad point in our choice of would-be futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it implies that there has been a degree of connection already, which now needs to end compared to No's rebuttal in the first place. Sincere decisions cut the past away completely and that penetrating quality sets up an opening of a doorway that otherwise does not materialize.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future reveals itself according to the habits of what has gone before unless we take control of it and shape it to our desire. This obliges us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, particular and positive converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is fairly unreal and the second is much more single-minded and controlled. For a vision to become real there must be support. . Nothing can be done without securing the help of other people - this takes skill, most likely persuasion, even motivation. It is not always obligatory to tender something such as money or money's worth.

Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing damage done because we've been uncaring or heedless to the needs or wants of someone else. The best idea is to make sure we preclude the need to say it by being thoughtful earlier. For what reason? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against our better purposes and lessen our odds of success, so it is simply more sensible to take into account others as well as ourselves. It is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for someone whom we've upset and offering reimbursement when we've done wrong. Only then is it possible to forestall or patch up bitterness and leave go of the lasting unpleasantness that otherwise would strengthen and rankle.

Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The concluding point of our 7 Words approach relates with acceptance; there are times when we simply have to tolerate what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be lovely wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in actual fact we can't. We always need to swallow what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The greatest thing is to place reliance on the fact that everything sooner or later turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when understood in the perspective of the longer term. Clearly it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Yet pause a while and you'll see that the unexpected episodes, the surprises and setbacks are actually the best bits camouflaged as hardships.

James Burgess 2008

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